Breastfeeding was always a cherished part of my dream as a mom, but reality took a different turn when I had my preemie. My baby, born at just 29 weeks, required intensive care in the NICU. Despite my best efforts, anxiety and hormonal imbalances—issues I struggled with even before pregnancy—left me with a limited milk supply. It was heartbreaking to realize I couldn’t fully meet my baby’s nutritional needs.
During our NICU days, I depended heavily on donor breast milk to ensure my baby received the nutrition and immunity support he needed. Knowing how essential breast milk is for preterm babies’ development, I was grateful that donor milk was readily available.
After we were discharged from the hospital, I started producing a small amount of milk myself. However, it still wasn’t enough to meet my baby’s growing needs. Thankfully, I was blessed with a supportive community. A neighbor, who had also just given birth, generously offered her surplus milk. Later, my cousin, another new mom, stored her excess breast milk in her refrigerator for my baby. These acts of kindness meant the world to me and played a crucial role in sustaining my baby’s health during those critical months.
Not everyone is fortunate to have such a network, and that’s where milk banks become lifesavers. Milk banks collect, pasteurize, and distribute donor breast milk, ensuring it’s safe and nutritious for preemies. For many moms, especially those without personal connections to other breastfeeding mothers, milk banks are an incredible resource.
Using donor milk isn’t always easy—it comes with emotional challenges and logistical hurdles. For me, it was a humbling experience, but one that taught me the value of community and support. If you’re a mom to a preemie struggling with milk supply, I encourage you to explore the option of donor milk through certified milk banks.
Breastfeeding, whether directly or through donor milk, is a journey of resilience and love. It’s not about where the milk comes from but about ensuring our babies get the best start in life.